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Therapy for Executives, California

Evidence-based support for high achievers navigating high-stakes stress, burnout, and relationship strain.

From the outside, everything looks under control; you’re delivering results and leading your team. But inside, or when you finally step through your front door, it feels impossible to shut off. You might find yourself feeling distant, irritable, or overwhelmed, wondering why your success at work isn’t translating into success at home. When the pressure builds, it’s completely natural to search for ways to find a release, even through coping habits you wish you could change.

You don’t have to carry this alone. I offer a non-judgmental, supportive space to help you understand your nervous system’s stress responses, restore balance, and anchor your self-worth in who you are, not just what you achieve.

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How does therapy for executives work with me?

Together, we’ll explore how heavy demands impact your body, mind, relationships, and the constant drive to perform. Drawing from interpersonal neurobiology, somatic regulation, and attachment principles, our work is grounded in empathy and practical growth, always guided by what matters most to you.

We’ll focus on:

  • Gently tuning into your body’s early warning signs before stress escalates.

  • Developing research-based, practical ways to calm down when you feel the urge to react, isolate, or escape.

  • Untangling internal beliefs that tie your human value strictly to performance and results.

  • Cultivating warmth, patience, and meaningful presence with your loved ones.

Healing is a continuous practice. We’ll collaborate on gentle, manageable action steps between sessions. If something doesn’t feel right or helpful, we’ll explore that openly together and adapt to meet your needs.

What kind of life can therapy with me help you build beyond your work?

You notice when you’re reaching your limit

You may be used to putting everyone else’s needs first. I help you tune into your own stress without feeling overwhelmed, so you can respond with care before feeling burnt out.

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Your self-worth extends beyond results

When achievements define your worth, a down or difficult month can feel like a personal failure. I help you separate your self-worth from work outcomes and treat yourself with acceptance.

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You can give relationships more attention

Walking through the door doesn’t automatically turn off work mode. I help you uncover what keeps your mind spinning and practice ways to truly connect with the people you care about most.

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Who can benefit from executive therapy?

This therapy is designed for leaders, entrepreneurs, and high achievers whose outward success masks an inner feeling of exhaustion, isolation, and personal or relational failure.

This may resonate with you if:

  • You lead a team, organization, or business, but feel overwhelmed by what’s happening at home.

  • Setbacks or under-performing seasons leave you struggling with self-criticism.

  • You hold a public-facing role in politics, entertainment, sports, or church.

  • You feel distant from your partner or family.

  • You feel stuck using high-intensity coping strategies to unwind.

  • Fear of failure, not feeling like enough, fear of rejection, or shame drive you to keep striving, producing and performing, even in your significant relationships.

For a broader look at the concerns I address, explore my individual therapy page.

What might change beyond the work?

  • You notice stress building before it spills into an argument.

  • You have more ways to settle yourself when work feels relentless.

  • You respond to a difficult month with less self-criticism.

  • You feel more able to give your partner or family your attention.

  • You recognize the triggers that lead to regretful behaviors and learn how to make more effective choices.

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What’s the process for getting started?

1

Book a consultation

We’ll talk briefly about what you’re carrying and how therapy with me can help.

2

Start structured sessions

We’ll meet weekly online, giving you consistent space to understand your stress and practice new responses.

3

Build a new kind of strength

Together, we’ll build self-worth that doesn’t rise and fall with results, and more presence with the people who matter most.

Testimonials

  • - S., Patient

    “Anxiety and depression were taking over my life, I sought help and found Brian. Before Brian, I didn’t realize how much grief I had set to the side thinking I had it managed. Brian is like a guide. He helps you in discovering where you are emotionally and he meets you there. He is very intuitive. 

    Brian has this openness and positivity about him that you immediately feel. You feel comfortable. You feel trust. I knew I could just talk to him. He helped me to understand the pain and grief that I was feeling, the anxiety, feelings of being overwhelmed, and depression. He looked at me as a whole person. He is very respectful. I never felt embarrassed or ashamed in his presence.  

    He gives tangible exercises…to help yourself. To find that place of inner calm. I feel better each day and am taking steps to enrich my life… I never would have been able to do that six months ago. I truly thank Brian for that!" “

  • - Shaindy Sternhill, Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Licensed Professional Counselor

    “When interacting with others Brian exudes presence, empathy and compassion. Using clinical insights, skill and humanity allow his clients to feel seen. He has a wonderful ability to establish therapeutic alliances with his clients. This allows them to feel safe and supported.

    (He) is able to … meet them without judgement. His commitment to learning about various treatment modalities prove his eagerness to apply best practice for his clients. Additionally, I am impressed with his ability to be culturally sensitive in various settings and situations.

    He has worked with various modalities effectively treating clients with numerous mental health diagnoses.”

  • - M., Patient

    "I started seeing Brian during the lowest point of my life. He was instrumental in helping me out of the hole I found myself in. …I learned how to regulate my moods and emotions. I was able to face my trauma and find peace. Not only did he speak wisdom into my life and situation, but he gave me the tools I needed to overcome my challenges and find order in my chaotic life.

    Thank you for being a fantastic therapist. I never thought I would have such peace in my life after something so traumatic. You were instrumental in that and I am so grateful for your help."

Frequently asked questions

How can therapy help executives manage ongoing stress?

We work together to identify your unique stress triggers and gently address coping strategies that are no longer effective. Through practical self-care techniques and body-awareness tools, you can find lasting relief that carries over into your home life.

Can I attend online therapy around my work schedule?

I offer online appointments and can discuss current openings during a consultation. Share the times you can consistently attend. Availability varies, and I’ll let you know whether there is a suitable appointment.

How can I stop tying my self-worth to career performance?

We’ll gently explore the belief that your worth depends on your productivity. By treating yourself with grace during tough times, you can build a steady sense of self-worth that doesn’t fluctuate with work performance. The aim is greater self-acceptance when performance changes.

Can therapy help me be more present with my family?

Yes. When high-pressure demands make it hard to unwind at home, the way we work together in therapy will help calm your internal stress response so you can engage with warmth, attention, and presence for your family. Relationship outcomes depend on more than one person.